October FB Month in Review

10/30: As sad as it makes me to hear of so much tragedy happening all around right now, I think it's a gentle reminder from Heavenly Father to be thankful for all I have. All the other worries could not only be a lot worse, but they pale in comparison to what IS a lot worse for MILLIONS of people! There aren't enough minutes in the day to pray for those who are struggling right now ~ continuing to send mine your way!

Thoughts and prayers going out to all of those affected by the hurricane on the East Coast. There's never a good time to have something like this hit. But it definitely adds perspective to the holiday season ahead - a time for gratitude for sure!

10/28: The kids had their Primary Program today. I admit it - I cried! Isaac even had his part memorized and was so excited about it! Then they didn't want to go to Primary. Abby said, "But Mommy, I already sat and sang and sat and sang and sat and sang - now I'm done! I want to go home!" Isaac just plain snuck out of Primary and up to Nursery. There were so many kids, it took me a while to notice he was up there playing. I took him back. Then they brought him back to me. The Primary Pres. said, "We're handing out gummy bears and he says that he doesn't eat sugar, it makes him sick, and he needed to come see you." While she's explaining this to me - and I'm staring at her in awe - Isaac sneaks off again to play with the toys! How did I get him to go back? Promised him marshmallows! He had no qualms about sugar that time! I LOVE my kids!

10/27: I've been having a hard time seeing past the moment and current sacrifices/circumstances (particularly finances). So last night I took some time to zoom out on our life map, get some eternal perspective back into the picture, and today it is time to "forget myself and go to work!" There really ARE "chances to serve all around us now - opportunities RIGHT IN our way! Do not let them pass by, saying, 'Sometime, I'll try!' Just go - and do something TODAY!'" HAPPY SATURDAY!!!

10/26: Went to D.I. to buy the kids winter shoes and coats and look for pants. An hour later we went to leave to find that Isaac had ignored us and instead of putting his own shoes back on had taken them off to put the new shoes on when we weren't looking. They were nowhere to be found. We asked him why he took them off, he simply said, "I wanted to wear my new ones!" If I could bottle sheer willpower and determination . . . I'd be a millionaire! Oh, yes I would!  

One of these days, I'm going to get all of the kids ready to go somewhere, and two minutes before we leave, they aren't going to undo everything - like running into the back yard while I'm putting my shoes on and getting soaked up to their thighs in the melted snow. In their only pair of shoes. One of these days . . . .

10/25: I have been thinking a lot today about faith . . . and freedom! I am so thankful to have a Savior who made both possible, from the VERY beginning, and to live in a country that makes it possible to enjoy both still! I'm thankful for dreams and hope and perseverance, and I'm thankful that when I look into the eyes of my children, I see ALL of it in their futures!

10/24: If anyone is wondering what a FANTASTIC present is for a child turning 4, FLOOR PUZZLES!!! Seriously, with both of them have LOVED their floor puzzles. They can't put them together enough times in a day. I think they actually have the piece placement memorized by now, and yet they still love to pull them out and put them together over and over and over again! SCORE!

10/23: Know what I love? I love that it stays dark longer so my kids sleep in more. I love snuggling, singing, and reading with my kids on the sofa. I love that four of the people I have most respected at different parts of my life are all celebrating a BIRTHDAY today! I love that my dear friend Leah is FINALLY expecting a baby after almost five years of trying. I love that my friends who are strugg

ling SO MUCH with things that pull on their very heartstrings have the strength and promises of the Gospel and their covenants to pull them through. I love that Dave picked up some early readers and that Isaac - who has been reading everything in sight for months now - is making connections between words and pictures. LIFE IS GOOD! I am truly, truly blessed!

10/22: Watched my first Presidential debate tonight - and then the commentaries on Fox and CNN. My conclusion? You can't draw a conclusion from the commentaries/news/reviews. You have to actually watch the debate to know if you agree or disagree with what they are saying. There were some debate conclusions stated very confidently and repeatedly that I TOTALLY and COMPLETELY disagreed with! Don't get your information from people who have a vested interest in the conclusions you draw. Then, as the moderator said, "Go VOTE!" God bless the USA, God bless this country where people have the right to a voice, and God bless us to use it wisely!

10/20: I'm pretty sure I'm married to the best dad ever! After our fruitless fishing trip yesterday (I think Dad was more disappointed than kids), he woke up at 6:00 this morning, woke Isaac up, got him dressed, and they went fishing together. They only caught two little rainbow trout. Put them back because Dave said they were so small that you'd need like 8 to make it worth eating them! :-) But Isaac was still REALLY excited! And Abby was about to cry until he promised her he would take her next week. :-)

10/17: Prayer at our house tonight:
Abby: Please bless that we can dress up for Halloween and that I can be a horse and Isaac can be a bat.
Isaac: No! - A DRAGON!
Abby: And that Isaac can be a dragon and Brianna can be a . . . a FLAMINGO!
Isaac: No! - A UNICORN!
Abby: And a Unicorn. Amen!

10/17: Disclaimers: Political rant because I care and have a voice, even when I respect that we may not agree; and I have only read about the debate on CNN and FoxNews this morning, I haven't actually watched it. But one thing hit me really strong. Calling a spade a diamond doesn't make it one. Things like attacking Romney for saying that 47% of America doesn't pay taxes, saying that he had binders full of women candidates for jobs when he solicited them, and saying that the auto industry - like everyone else - should have been responsible for saving itself instead of leaning on the backs of the American people. What is wrong with saying those things? Do they support some bias on his part and make him a horrible, heartless person? Do only 53% of the people IN FACT pay taxes? Could he have just as easily had binders full of men if he'd asked for them? Is the auto industry a select group that deserves to be bailed out while the rest of us fall AND pay for it? They blatantly point out what we are up against as a nation! If you want to candy and sugar coat things, then stop complaining about how things are. Because IF NOTHING EVER CHANGES, THINGS WILL ALWAYS STAY THE SAME!!!!

And guess what? For 29 of my 32 years, I HAVE BEEN THE 47%. But even in that category, I consistently worked three jobs a year to pay my way through school, and I complained with other friends as we watched our husbands do school full time AND work multiple jobs to support us on their own while other people's spouses didn't work at all and their families still enjoyed the luxuries of "welfare extras" we CHOSE not to enjoy but were paying for. AND I'M A WOMAN. A woman WHO CHOSE - and not at gunpoint - a field of study that left me grateful to make $13/hour, even with a Master's Degree. And I'm STILL disgusted that my taxes have gone to the bailouts while the value of our condo has depreciated $12,000 in the last two years. And my husband reminds me how lucky we are when some of his coworkers lost $50-$100,000 in value during those same two years.

NO ONE is bailing me out of the consequences of MY OWN OR OTHER PEOPLE'S choices -- or even just natural economic hard knocks. So why does the President and the media paint a picture that NOT recognizing where we ARE is a better tactic for a leader than just calling a spade . . . a SPADE?

Calling a spade a diamond . . . just doesn't make it one. And I think it's a sign of a GOOD leader who can identify the issues as ISSUES without turning them into INSULTS. And the sign of a people ready for real change when they can hear the truth of how things are and not take them as categorical slams against the subjects. IF WE ARE GOING TO RISE AS A NATION, EVERYONE IS GOING TO HAVE TO MAKE SACRIFICES! Don't complain about where we are and want change at the expense of EVERYONE else. It just doesn't work that way.

When I'm balancing MY budget in a crisis, my personal and family fun money are the FIRST things to go. I wish we could find a leader who did the same . . . . Because "if you live like no one else, later you can live like no one else." But that will never happen or do us ANY good as long as we are a PEOPLE who is not prepared to do the same, a people that calls out leaders who suggest that we just might need to.

10/15: Isaac woke up throwing up this morning. So now we get to sit all together and cuddle. It seems as long as one of them is touching some part of me - my foot, my leg, holding my hand, whatever - all is good in the world. I QUITE agree! And even before he woke up I was thinking I needed a cuddle day with my kids today! Wish granted. ;-)

Okay, friends! I need to set up a training schedule for breastfeeding and completing a half marathon next year! Foot surgery kept me from completing after the twins, the lovely Antelope Valley and three kids kept me from it after Brianna. But here in Utah - no excuses!!! So I was wondering if there is anyone else who will be starting from scratch - maybe even breastfeeding - and would want to train with me next year! My goal is to do a 5K in March on the Couch to 5K program and then see how my milk supply is holding up and what my time is to go up from there. Any takers? YOU KNOW YOU WANT TO!!!! No one is starting from ground zero more than me, trust me - so let's DO THIS!

10/14: What does two full days and nights without Mom around result in? 1) Fast food both nights. 2) Dessert both nights. 3) Dad getting sick of not sleeping and moving the house around to get the twins in separate rooms and Brianna in a big-girl bed. I think I need to be away more often - he'll find the struggles I have everyday and, as long as his plan works, fix them before I get back! ;-D Next time I'll leave ready-made meals for him to grab, though. I love you, David Chaffee! Thanks for the break!

Welcome, welcome, Sabbath Morning! Definitely time to rest from every care and tap into my heart, my family, and my relationship with the One who can teach me what I'm supposed to be DOING with it all. Happy Sunday, friends! :-) 

10/13: Quick lesson during break - if you only get to teach your kids 10 things in their lives, what are they? Only 10 - no wiggle room. What are you doing TODAY to teach them that? From Jack Canfield

10/11: Off on a bike ride with my kids! This is the first time we've had the right parts to successfully attach the Tag-Along bike to the back of my bike and make it work! We're all PRETTY excited!!!

I missed the VP debate tonight - but from what Leah Sidwell posted, that's not necessarily a BAD thing! ;-) This is going to be an interesting election. And I still need to figure out what it was that happened in Libya - besides that four people were killed, including the U.S. ambassador. I am still trying to tap into what happened leading up to it that has everyone in such a rage.  

10/9: Vision. I'm honing in on my vision of ME and my marriage and my family! As I type this, Isaac is singing, "You gotta love, love, love, love, love yourself!" over and over again!

I love this from Alice in Wonderland:
Alice: Would you tell me, please, which way I ought to go from here?
The Cat: That depends a good deal on where you want to get to.
Alice: I don't much care where.
The Cat: Then it doesn't much matter which way you go.
Alice: …so long as I get somewhere.
The Cat: Oh, you're sure to do that, if only you walk long enough.

If you don't know where you want to go, it doesn't really matter what road you take. But when you KNOW, the road in front of you is quite clear and the obstacles so much easier to avoid/overcome!

10/8: I have a 2-year-old with a new-found freedom in being able to get out of bed, open doors, and reach light switches ALL AT THE SAME TIME!!! (Just found her sitting very quietly in the bathtub with all the toys, completely naked and just sitting there . . . at 9:30 at night.) And a 4-year-old who is so exhausted all she can do is sit and cry. Oh, the life of a mother! ;-)

Isaac: Abby, Abby! Daddy's making MUFFINS!!!
Abby: For BREAKFAST?
Isaac: No. Muffins aren't breakfast. Muffins are a special treat. Mommy? When we finish our breakfast, can we have some of Daddy's muffins, like cookies?

10/7: I LOVE GENERAL CONFERENCE! Yesterday was FULL of revelations and loving reminders! President Eyring's remarks this morning about turning your heart over to the Lord and allowing Him to direct and shape your life were SO TIMELY! I am so t

hankful that we have this amazing weekend to be instructed, uplifted, strengthened, challenged to do better, and lifted higher than we are on our own. Now to get the kids a few more coloring pages so we can keep the Spirit here for the rest of it! LOL! ;-)

10/6: Just did the math on our Family Missionary Lineup! As of now, we could have all of our children HOME from missions in the next 20 years! And we could leave to serve our first mission 8 years later. That's a LOT of planning and preparing to do between now and then to be spiritually, physically, and financially self-reliant and teach them to be the same. We're up for the challenge! Here we GOOOOOO!!!!

"You mean to tell me that you actually believe there is a prophet of God on the earth today, just as there was in ancient times?" --- YES! ---
"Well, what is he saying to you?" --- He testifies of Christ and how to follow in His ways, just as prophets of old. Come, listen and see for yourself! ---

10/5: Abby: Mommy, I can't wait for Daddy to come back! I'm just in his heart because . . . because I'm his pretty Princess!
Me: Yes you are, Abby - yes you are!
He's forming some pretty big shoes for some man to fill someday. I'm so thankful for that!

10/4: I am so tired of hashing things out with the HOA and upstairs tenants for damage to our condo that happened OVER a year ago! The HOA wants to pass blame to the upstairs tenant so they aren't responsible. The upstairs tenant wants to blame the construction worker and HOA so she isn't responsible. And both are telling me it isn't THEIR problem and they won't do anything to amend it. So here we are, left with the damage and responsible parties totally avoiding it. The HOA manager told me all I can do is go to Small Claims Court with it. REALLY?!?!?! And Dave says that's too expensive, so a cost-benefit analysis says that we'll just pay for it and get it taken care of. OY! Liberty and JUSTICE for all, right? Right . . . .

On a positive note, this all means that our condo is the most full-proof for ANY damage to ANY of those areas occurring in the future. All the faulty construction from the original build has been upgraded and replaced to be up to current codes and standards. The majority of the beams and sheet rock have been replaced as well. No other unit can say that when they sell! :-) There is a silver lining to every cloud after all!

Abby, laughing hysterically as she jumps from bed to bed, asks me, "Mommy, why can't I stop laughing?" Um - I think someone is OVER tired! I LOVE little girls! :-)

10/2: Driving home from my sister's tonight, I was taken back by the beauty of the moments: the trees changing colors on the mountains, my three treasures asleep in the back seat, the reds and pinks of the setting sun, Soul Sister and This One's For the Girls playing on the radio, the wind blowing loudly through the car (because I don't have air conditioning - LOL!), memories of college day road trips, the hard college years. And I was overcome with gratitude that I am so incredibly, incredibly blessed. Life is good. And it just keeps getting better.

My friends Wendy Spinelli and her husband Nate ran the Tough Mudder! And I have to say - that looks like a lot of fun! I think I'm going to add it to my list of things to do - in addition to the midnight run here in the Farmington area with glowsticks, the Disneyland Half Marathon, the Nike Women's Half Marathon in San Francisco, and someday . . . just maybe the Boston Marathon! Baby steps!